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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • Cigarettes

    I just can’t do it. They’re trashy and they smell terrible. Almost universally friends/partners I’ve had the smoke cigarettes ash wherever they want- like my patio or door step. I had an ex that would chain smoke, ash in front of the door, then put the cigarette out and leave it on the steps.

    So now everyone that walks by sees our entryway covered in ash, cigarette butts, and burn marks. Just looks and smells like shit.

    That same partner kept an ash tray in the patio. It filled up with water when it rained, and she just… left it. So now the patio smells like soppy wet shit too.

    Ever since then cigs are a deal breaker for me. If you don’t respect your body how can you ever respect your environment or relationship?

    Anyway.







  • TexMexBazooka@lemm.eetoLemmy@lemmy.mlThe Ability To Mute A Post/Thread
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    1 month ago

    So I have a two part reply to this-

    1. If notifications cause you that much distress, social media will be inherently damaging to your mental health. At that point, it makes sense to mute notifications for apps entirely.

    however

    1. Being able to mute a thread is not something that would subtract from anybody else’s experience, and can only add to people’s who use it.

    So overall, I think this is a good idea