Okay, i was able to take some time and play with Incus. i really like it. I had set it up on a clean VPS and attempted to set up Dendrite in a container. I had some issues getting the traffic to route appropriately to the Incus container and I didn’t have as much time to sit back and play with the settings. It was the first time I was set ting up Dendrite and I had a ton of issues with that in of itself, so i just wiped the VPS and installed Dendrite w/o the use of Incus to get a good understanding of how to get it set up correctly and federate it, etc. Now that I know that I think I am going to give this another try. I like the web UI as well, but since i use an iPhone i wasn’t really able to be able to set up the browser with the cert, which in the long run isn’t a big deal. overall, outside of the firewall settings, it was super easy to setup and get moving. thanks again for the recommendation.

Welcome to the cult….

it’s a long way better than trying to install Slackware in the late 90s.

Ha, indeed.

Agree with Frozen here. Outside of AppImages which can go where ever (I usually do /opt) I would let most things install where they default to. I installed steam directly from their repo (not s76/ubuntu/debug repo) And had no issues. I have an additional drive in that has a specific mount point in my home dir and games install there. Sounds like you may be new to Linux? It takes a bit to get used to the different mindset of Linux but I’ve found over the years that backing up my apps isn’t really as big of a deal in Linux, especially these days with flatpak and snaps and appimages, etc. I’d be more worried about storing media (photos, videos, music, etc) in its own drive or partition. if you are new to Linux and I’m not projecting here, you should think about joining the PopOS Mattermost. A lot of good folks there always willing to help.

ahhh thanks, i needed that laugh. too true…

Thanks for all this. I’m familiar with Linux and I just think for my need, something like Proxmox is overkill. I do need to learn LXD on its own. Typically I just run binaries of the services I use, and I don’t tend to use docker or other things. I had toyed with the thought of using Proxmox for management purposes because let’s face it management of several on prem and off prem servers can be a pain. But keeping things running fast and smooth (for spouse approval) is important. I’ll look over the links you provided as it’s probably just good for me to learn LXD directly.

I’ve been thinking of trying this (or using Caddy instead of nginx) so I could get Nextcloud running on an internal server but still have an external entry point (spousal approval) but after setting up the subdomain and then starting caddy and watching how many times that subdomain started to get scanned from various Ips all over the world, I figured eh that’s not a good plan. And I’m a nobody and don’t promote my domain anywhere.