Volkditty

You don’t have to have an opinion about everything.

Wildermyth. It is a good game.

Have you tried This War of Mine? It has many of the elements you describe.

I would love to buy this game on sale and never get around to playing it.

Isn’t that what Grounded is? I haven’t played it personally, but it reviews well and that seems to be their aim.

X-COM with the Long War mod is where it’s at.