Lots of people are feeling hopeless and upset right now, and for good reason. It’s normal to feel like no matter what you do, things are going to get much worse for a lot of people. Blame, despair and anger are natural reactions, but as the shock of the situation dulls, what’s your plan going forward?

Call me naive, but seeing hate have a resurgence makes me want to do more to help the people that are going to suffer the most. I’m going to make a plan to volunteer more of my time and resources to help organizations that need it. I’m going to see if my friends can organize with me to sponsor a migrant family. I may not be able to do much, but my personal way of coping with shitty situations is to try to make the world a little less shitty.

I’m going to try to be kinder and more forgiving with people, and be a better role model for my kids. And I’m going to resist and fight back against hate when I see it.

Lastly, I’m going to be a more supportive friend to the people in my life. And to anyone reading this that feels like this world’s gone insane, and you’re all alone: you’re not. We’re still in this together, and I appreciate everything you’re doing.

  • neomachino@lemmy.world
    12·
    7 days ago

    My toddler and I have been bringing a trash bag to the park and cleaning the place up. It’s always a mess and it makes me sad to see because it’s my sons favorite park.

  • Cadenza@lemmy.world
    9·
    7 days ago

    My current activities : -Finding caring doctors for an elderly woman

    -Counsel colleagues at my work about mental health and/or unionization

    -Help two refugees friends for their paperwork for citizenship.

    I wish I could do more, but on top of work, I’m already exhausted.

    • TehBamski@lemmy.worldEnglish
      9·
      7 days ago

      Oh heck yeah! Help fellow editor. =)

      Come join us if you haven’t. Even if you only have 10-15 minutes to do something, it all helps in the end. There are plenty of things to do and no pressure for you to do all of them or even most of them.

      https://www.openstreetmap.org

      • WhyAUsername_1@lemmy.world
        3·
        7 days ago

        Can you please ELI5 how I could contribute?

        I want to atleast give inputs about my own apartment building and various office/friends place where I frequently travel.

        • bob_lemon@feddit.org
          9·
          7 days ago

          I think the easiest way to get started is StreetComplete: https://streetcomplete.app/

          It will show you places in your vicinity where information is missing, like opening hours of shops, or the existence of ramps at stairs, and you can provide them in a really simple interface. You can filter out questions you don’t like to answer as well.

            • TehBamski@lemmy.worldEnglish
              3·
              7 days ago

              To verify, yes.

              It’s against Google Maps’ ToS (Terms of Service) however to use its exact coordinates for anything outside of Google Maps. This is mostly to prevent others from using exact information (map or otherwise,) and then compete against them.

        • TehBamski@lemmy.worldEnglish
          8·
          7 days ago

          Sure thing.

          On OpenStreetMap (OSM) there are four main things you can do.

          1. Mapping: Trace features like roads, buildings, waterways, and land use from satellite imagery

          2. Editing: Update existing map data to reflect changes, such as new roads or buildings.

          3. Validation: Check and correct errors in the map data to ensure accuracy and completeness.

          4. Tagging: Add detailed information to map features, such as names, types, and other attributes.

          All of these can be achieved via OSM’s web app.

          Here is the Beginners’ guide if you want more info.

          I’d be willing to answer your questions if you had any. And I’m sure others that map edit for OSM would be willing to do the same.

  • Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
    323·
    8 days ago

    I try to get people to read Marxist theory, and correct common misconceptions. Part of why people feel despair right now is because they don’t see a way out of this, because they don’t have a background in leftist theory. I keep a basic beginners reading list I can link, if anyone wants it, I’ll spare the copypasta.

    It also includes a section at the end with my own personal practical suggestions for how to conduct yourself in your daily life to remain effective and optimistic.

    I also try to combat problems like queerphobia, racism, and misogyny when I see them.

      • Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
        201·
        4 days ago

        Here it is, Cowbee’s “Read Theory, Darn It!” beginner reading list. All except one work has an audiobook alternative linked, otherwise there are text links directly to said works. It starts off with foundations, then builds on said foundations, ending with some practical advice on how to conduct yourself as a Leftist in general. I also include intersectional theory regarding trans and enby liberation, gay rights and history, and decolonialism.

        Let me know if you have any questions or suggestions!

    • SevenSkalls [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      6·
      7 days ago

      How do you get past the initial brainworms even bringing up the word communism? Like someone else said above, I feel like I can’t even bring up an alternative path or get them to pick up a book without them yelling about China and Tiannamen Square, or Stalin and his killing a bakillion millon people, or how “communism has never worked”. It’s so annoying to have to go back to these basic, first-grade points every time.

      • Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
        3·
        7 days ago

        As much as you can try, debatelords will be debatelords. You can be 100% correct with flawless evidence and debate skills, and some will cry and bleat about whatever. Those people typically are never going to be convinced by some magic formula of debate or combination of words.

        Instead, I meet people where they are at. I let them know I can try to answer any questions they have, I can provide a basic reading list, etc etc. I don’t speak about what I don’t know, I speak on what I do. I pick my audience based on those who are receptive. My goal is to educate those who want to be, and help guide radicalization, which happens without my will simply due to dying Imperialism every single minute of every single day.

        At the end of the day, there will be debatelords, you can chuck Yellow Parenti and Blackshirts and Reds, but that’s about it unless you have a lot of time and can debunk every bit of gish gallop so others watching can see. Other comrades are great at that, so I try to fulfil a gentler role that catches others.

  • eldavi@lemmy.ml
    16·
    8 days ago

    during the hiv/aids crisis; people who had spare bedrooms; or could afford to cook extra meals; or took it upon themselves to distribute those extra meals; or volunteer basic healthcare services for free (ie candy stripers); etc. would put up “help offered” posters in gay safe spaces with contact information on them. the posters where mostly hand made back then, but i’ve seen a more modern day version of it with home printers and the bottom section of the paper scored off so that people can rip off and take the contact information with them and i’ve seen a newer version of that with the mutual aid community in hexbear: https://hexbear.net/c/mutual_aid

    any leftist safe space, both virtual and real. will have something like this; seek them out and you can ask someone in person what you can do to help that’s tailored to you circumstances. (and to set your expectations: it’s probably going to suck a lot; that’s why they need the help)

  • ChihuahuaOfDoom@lemmy.world
    15·
    8 days ago

    I’ll just keep volunteering to be honest, I’m a volunteer EMT a few times a month right now but I’m thinking of volunteering with the local theater and possibly the warming center as we enter the colder months.

  • Eczpurt@lemmy.world
    13·
    8 days ago

    Real small relative to the other comments but if a loose cart is nearby in the grocery parking lot, I’ll go out of my way to return it. I know I hate seeing an “empty space” and there being a cart in the way and in that case it’ll likely never get moved.

  • sibachian@lemmy.mlEnglish
    12·
    7 days ago

    I keep extinct in the wild and critically endangered species of fish in my aquariums and am a member of a couple of fish focused associations who work with universities for the goal of preservation of species. been considering getting into red listed frogs and cactus, but the communities are smaller (so less access to species) and space is a premium when living in an apartment.

    i wish there was more exposure of this hobby because it’s such an affordable, easy and “low effort” thing to do, but a lot of people who care about the environment and animals basically get offended when you keep animals “locked up” in an aquarium. in my opinion, serious aquarists (not the pet store furniture mentality) are invaluable, as a lot of species has been saved from extinction through aquarist efforts and university collaboration to reintroduce them to their native ranges after restoration work is completed (at least Lenoardo DiCaprio made a little bit of social media impact for one of the associations in 2022).

    I should add, overfishing is not the leading cause for extinction in freshwater fish, it’s pollution from agriculture, as the vast majority of fish threatened with extinction have no utility to us (or bright enough colors to benefit the commercial pet trade - brightly colored species are generally not even found in the wild, and have their colors from decades of selective breeding by dedicated aquarists).

  • Poogona [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
    10·
    8 days ago

    I have very few resources to offer anyone in need, as it’s really only by my basic unfair privileges as a cis white man that I even have a place to sleep, but I’m just trying to make it clear to the people I know that I have the space to house them/feed them if they are in crisis. Without much else to support them with it feels like the best I can do.

  • tailiat@lemmy.mlEnglish
    10·
    7 days ago

    It’s a small thing I started doing years ago: whenever I see a loose nail or screw in the street I’ll always pick it up and put it in the nearest trash so nobody gets a flat tire or steps on it. Small, but hopefully saves some potential misery for someone.

  • rickrolled767@ttrpg.network
    9·
    7 days ago

    I want to participate more with the food banks in my area.

    My parents struggled when I was growing up. They’d bend over backwards to make sure my siblings and I always had food on our plates and clothes on our backs. While they’re better off now, I still remember the times when they wouldn’t eat to make sure there was some for us.

    I used to be more active as a teen when I was in the boy scouts, but now that I’m working full time, I want to get more involved again.

    If nothing else, people should never have to go hungry

  • wellDuuh@lemmy.worldEnglish
    8·
    7 days ago

    Pick up any trash that I touch/step on/kick and dispose of it into the nearest bin.

    This started from the bottles and soda cans kicking, I just loved how they sound when kicked to the max. I still do to this day :)

    My dad hated it so much. He probably smacked my young tush once or twice for that. So i would pick the dirty bottles and cans if he’s in the vicinity and kick them hard out far back. Yap, I know how silly this is. He still heard the kick sounds, tho LoL

    So he came with a truce: “You wanna kick bottles? Fine. You kick a bottle, you ensure a proper disposal of it on the bin.”

    He even gave me a tactic to kick them higher up that day LoL, thanks, dad.