• moon@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    If you don’t find someone physically attractive, how do you settle down with them? Do you just accept getting into bed with someone you’re physically repulsed by every night?

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      2 months ago

      There is a lot of room between attraction and repulsion though. A not ideal looking person who is so good in bed, loves you and you get along with? Maybe they are neutral to you looks-wise but hot for reasons other than looks.

      Someone whose looks repel you? No, that’s never going to work.